If you think Library is the most boring place in the world, you could be wrong as you can find the love of your life here. And, if you are the one who loves spending time with books, just take off your eyes from books and look around the library for that cute girl involve with her book. Find a girl who spends more on books than on clothes and accessories, a girl with a library card and books in her bag and not cosmetics and perfumes.
You can take the membership of the same library she visits. Just take note of her library timings and be there to meet her. You can easily start a conversation with her. If she is busy with her book, she might not like to get interrupted and will not show any interest in talking to you. So, you can start when she is busy exploring the book shelves. What to talk? This is so simple. Talk Books. Ask her to advice you on some good books. Introduce yourself and tell her that you are new to the library. And, most importantly, do read the book and discuss it with her (chance to impress).
There are various benefits of falling in love with a girl who reads. Here are some.
She will understand you better. Even if you lie to her about your interest for books in starting and tell her later about the lie, she will understand it as she is a reader who understands characters and words in books. So, a lie will not end your relation (this doesn’t mean that you can always lie). A reader understands characters and people well.
If you find such a girl, keep her close to you. Hug her when she cries reading a book. Don’t think that she will only be involve in her books. She will talk characters and stories with you, but for a little time. She may be busy with the roles in the books for hours, but she will always come back to you for love. She will fill your life with colours and will give it more meaning.
Easy to Date:
It is said that a women loves jewellery more than anything else, but this might not be the case with a reader. She just love books and books. You can gift her book, poetry, novels, songs in writing on birthdays and anniversaries. Show her that you understand her love for books. And, also let her know that you know her love for you is more than for books.
You can also meet such a girl outside library. She is easy to recognize, she keep searching the bookshelves and her eyes spark when she get the book of her choice, she keep looking at books, reading synopsis, smelling pages and holding a pile of books with her. She is a reader. Here you get a chance, offer her help to carry her books or ask her to help you in buying a good book.
A girl at the coffee shop with a book in her hands, not even bothering that the coffee is getting cold. Another chance, just get her another coffee. If you try to talk to her, she might get angry as she don’t like to get disturbed while reading, but once she finishes she will definitely think about the coffee you have ordered.
So, love a girl who love books and don’t worry your home will not become a library. These girls are intelligent enough to balance between their life and hobby.
The best option for a music lover to find a girl who share same passion for music. Finding a girl at a music concert make you assure that you have one thing in common. Although, concerts are a difficult place to socialize as there is a lot of crowd and everyone is more interested in watching the band. Still there it is a good place to meet people who share same interest. So, you can utilize this as an opportunity to meet a girl. Here are some tips how:
1. Reach the concert venue early and stand in the booking line close to her. Till your chance come for buying the ticket, start a conversation.
2. People come to concerts with friends so you also bring your friends along and talk to a group of girls. Don’t just concentrate your conversation to her, interact with whole group so that the interaction seems genuine.
3. Don’t think on what to talk, you have a live topic; Music. Just keep the talk light and ask the girls about their favourite songs by the band. You can also ask their after-concert plan to join them after the concert.
4. If the girl is at the concert only because of her friends and she doesn’t have any liking for music, you can ask her if she want to hangout with you at the nearby bar or local spot till the concert ends.
5. Don’t try to talk with her during the concert as she has paid money for watching the band and not for listening your talks. Also, it is difficult to listen in loud music so, save the talks for later meetings.
6. If the girls don’t have after-concert plans, you make one. Ask the girl for a hangout in nearby spot. Ask her to invite her friends also, if she invite them, involve your friends too.
7. You can also share your love for music with her. If you know any instrument, you can invite her to listen you someday or if you carry it along with you, compose something romantic for her.
All the Best!!
Do you really want to know whether she loves you or not? Check out some signs that will indicate you that she really cares about your, likes you and loves you. Here are some sure signs that tells you about your relationship strength.
1.When you talk, she looks into your eyes:
While talking if she is continuously looking at you, it means that she is paying full attention to you and your conversation. If you are having any heart to heart discussion then she might turn her body towards you and watch your face expressions. These signs tell you that she want to know what you really thinks about life, love, family, friends and any other topic.
2. She wants to know about you:
If your girl asks you about your past, your needs, your habits, hobbies and all the other things related to you, Be sure that she want to know your life. This small indication can tell you that she loves you.
3. She wants to hold your hand:
If she wants to hold your hand while walking together, be sure that she is saying that she wants to be with you by her body language.
4. She comforts you on your bad day:
If she comforts you when you are upset, she wants to make you happy and be there for you. This is very important indicator of a relationship. She don’t know what will comfort you but then also she tries to do.
If she presents you a homemade card, an email, wildflower and something you have talked about then she cares about you.
Some of you guys may want to avoid this option due to various reasons, but workplace is among the best places to find a girlfriend and this fact cannot be denied. The modern style of working has made men and women work in a more friendly way. So, romantic attachments are unavoidable at workplace. This is also one of the easiest option as you meet every day and have plenty of time to spend with each other. There is only one risk with workplace romance i.e. You feel awkward if something goes wrong in the relationship, but if you have a real crush at workplace, try these tips to enter into a relationship.
1. Workplace is where we show all our skills and capabilities. So, you have the best opportunity to show your talent and impress her.
2. Don’t just keep staring at her as this will affect your work and will also make her feel uncomfortable to work. She might get irritated and say you something. This will be not for your reputation at workplace.
3. It is really hard to keep office crush secret as cameras and co-workers are keeping a watch on you. So, don’t try to talk to her personally till she shows her interest in talking to you. It would be a great idea to use the chatting system such as Skype to start a conversation. Don’t disturb her by continuous messages. You can start with something related to projects and then slowly with greetings and so on.
4. Notice the time when she come to office. If she is an early comer, you can also come a little early to start some talk with her. Today she will be working for extra hours, you can also stay and finish some pending tasks or better will be offer her help to complete her work early. You may get time for a coffee.
5. The evergreen trick will work here. Make her friend your friend, but make sure that her friend don’t get wrong indications; otherwise it will be a love triangle.
6. Last but not the least tip, although love is in the office but don’t forget that you are there to work. So, concentrate on work and let her concentrate too. Take advantage of before and after office hours to start conversation. Lunch break can also be used to know her in a better way.
Falling in love at office is the modern trend and even surveys have shown that office romance leads to successful marriage. So, check out your workplace tomorrow for your potential soul mate.
This sounds an interesting option as you guys keep visiting malls on weekends. What is the first thought which come to your mind after seeing a romantic couple in the mall? When and Where will I find a girlfriend for myself? Stop thinking and look around, you might find love in the mall itself. So, lets start with some useful tips:
1. The best time to visit a mall is weekends as most girls go shopping on weekends. So, there are chances to meet more girls.
2. Just look around the mall and see if you find some interesting face. There are less chances that you will find anyone on the corridors and it will also be difficult for you to find girls like that. The mall is divided into various sections such as clothing, food etc. So, start with one.
3. Go to the food court and while deciding on what to order, give a look to the sitting area. See if there is any girl sitting alone (wait and make sure she is alone) or with her friend. When your order is ready, you can ask the girls if you can join them. There are chances that you get a positive response.
4. Check out the girls clothing section. Don’t look surprised, if you want to talk to her, you have to go where she is. You can ask her to help you in shopping for your sister or you might pick two dresses and ask her opinion on which one is better. Girls love to give opinion. By doing so, they will also know that you are single. You can also ask her for a coffee in return of her help.
5. If you feel awkward going into girls clothing section, look for some options such as book stores or music stores. You can ask her opinion on some books or music DVDs or offer her help with the same.
6. In all the above situations, don’t forget to ask for her contact number. If she will be interested in you, you will get it otherwise don’t lose your heart my boy; there are other girls in the mall. Start you search again.
6. Don’t head to the mall alone, ask some friends to join you. Remember that you don’t have to show that you have come to find a girlfriend. You are just there to have fun and enjoy your weekend.
7. Dress smartly and casual. Wear something in which you feel comfortable and confident. One more thing be ready to spend some bucks.
Happy Shopping and Happy Dating!!
There cannot be a better place than a class for finding a girl friend and most of you must agree on this. However, there is a difficulty as you want to be social with all your friends and also want to give her special attention and take out time for conversations. If you are in a school or college, you must be trying to get involved with a girl who have stolen your heart the first day you saw her. So, here we are to help you in this and if you are far ahead than college life, you can join a hobby class, where you can find girl. So, in whatever stage you are, here are some useful tips for you.
Does she look at you or give you smile? Or is it like all these things are just dreams? Don’t be upset, here is the most adapted trick for you, just do friendship with her friends. Just watch out with whom she talks a lot and try to make that person your friend. After this you will get a way to reach her and rest you are smart enough.
Sit Next to Her:
You must be thinking why not to sit with her and why to sit next to her. Don’t forget, you have to take all steps in the right direction. Sitting next to her will let you concentrate more on her activities and will increase the chances of interaction. You can of course pick up her books or pen when they fall.
If you get any project or assignment in the class, don’t ask your friends how they will do it. Take it as a chance to interact with her. Ask her if she knows anything about the project. Help her in all the ways you can for the project. There cannot be a better opportunity to impress her. Hey! Try to Concentrate on the Project too.
Meet Her Outside Class:
After all the help and smile giving sessions, it’s time now to move ahead. Look for the day when she is walking to home alone. Join her by saying ‘Hi’, ask her if you can walk with her, talk about something other than class, her other hobbies or how does she spend her time before and after class, but make sure that you are not becoming interrogative. She might not like it.
Apart from all these simple tips, make sure you understand her response well. There may be chances that she also starts liking you and give you some clues to have a conversation or coffee or a walk to home together. Learn to understand her. And, the most important, don’t forget that you have joined the class to learn a new skill so take the lectures seriously. Be sensible in joining a class, think on what class will most of the girls join.
Have a Romantic Learning!!
Let’s come to the modern world. You must be thinking while reading the other posts about this option. But, there is a fun in real dating, you can observe her response and her expressions. Well, you are living in a digital age and spend most of your time online. So, why not to use it as a source to meet new girls and find a perfect match for yourself.
You might have heard that people create fake profiles on online dating sites and many people get target of such fake profiles. But, this is not the case with all profiles. There are many people who are genuine on online dating sites and are serious about entering into a relationship. In order to meet with such people you have to follow some tips:
1. Choose a reputed online dating site. There are various free online dating sites but chances are more that people are fake there or they have created a profile just for fun. If you are serious about relationship, go for paid dating sites. Here, the chances are more that you meet someone genuine.
2. Your profile is your digital face so, make sure that it is impressive. Your profile will attract girls to talk to you. A genuine user name, decent profile picture and perfect bio will do good. Avoid user names such as ‘cool guy’, ‘handsome’; they sound awful to women. If you don’t want to reveal your real name, try your initials. Include your hobbies and your perspective towards life in your bio.
3. After your profile is ready, you are all set to chat with girls. You can join a chat room that matches with your interest and start chatting. Online chatting have some rules and you have to keep them on mind. Use correct spellings and grammar. Talk politely, don’t use any abusive words. Compliment her on her style of chatting or anything else. Avoid discussing topics like cast, religion, figure. Keep them for later phases. Instead concentrate more on hobbies and interests.
4. If you want to send a personalize message to the lady, make sure it is different from all the other in her inbox. You can send a friendship quote or card or a song.
5. Apart from being a good conversationalist, you have to be a good listener. Listen to her carefully and show your interest in what she is talking about.
6. Don’t just ask her to meet you after two or three conversations. Although, this entirely depends upon how close you have come in the conversations. If she is also ready to meet you personally, you can plan it. Plan it well after all its your first date.
7. It is not so that you will always tune up with the first girl you talk. So, learn to handle the rejections or how you can say no to her. Always say good-bye gracefully. There may be a situation that you would like to connect with her later or add her in your friend circle.
8. If you face a lot of rejections, don’t get upset. There is a right girl for you and you will value her more after so many rejection. So, stay happy and positive.